What is Family Therapy?
A family is like a tree, it needs strong roots and a solid base in order to grow, stay healthy, and thrive. When the foundation is shaky, the whole tree can struggle. Family therapy is a way to care for that base, by bringing the whole family together, usually parents, children, and sometimes other close people.
The idea behind family therapy is that when one person in the family is having a hard time, it often connects to what’s happening in the family as a whole. Things like stress, arguments, or unspoken feelings can throw off the balance. Instead of focusing only on the individual, family therapy looks at how everyone relates to each other, how they communicate, make decisions, and support one another.
In these sessions, the therapist helps the family explore their relationships, roles, and patterns. The goal is to create a stronger, healthier family structure, one where everyone can feel safe, supported, and able to grow, just like a tree with deep, steady roots.
Common Issues Addressed in Family Therapy:
- Anger and conflict between parents, children & other family members
- Coping with grief and loss in the immediate or extended family
- Serious physical or mental health challenges
- Substance use and/or alcohol addiction
- Relationship difficulties between partners
- Financial crises or ongoing financial stress
- Major changes in family structure
- Second marriages and blended families
- Considering separation or divorce
- Co-parenting and custody-related coordination
- Families navigating separation, divorce, or court-related family law processes
How does Family Therapy Work?
In the initial sessions, the family therapist will aim to get to know each family member, often meeting with individuals separately at first, to gain a deeper understanding of the current situation and the reasons for seeking help. As is often the case, the more people involved, the more perspectives there are. Sometimes, each family member may describe the “situation” in a completely different way.
The therapist will ask relevant questions to explore how each person perceives the problem. Next, the therapist will develop a treatment plan outlining agreed-upon goals, and defining the therapeutic process, tools, and approaches to be used.
From there, the therapy begins, guided by the goals established at the outset, with ongoing reflection, adjustment, and support to help the family move toward healing and stronger connections.